Wedding formals – the couple

“Both of us are nice-looking people, but it doesn’t come across in photos. We seem to have the opposite of magical realism – we look like we’ve been stuffed and mounted as soon as we sense the glint of a camera lens… We would really like nice pictures of our wedding, with spirit, fun and soul. You seem to really get that!”

Sound like you? Does having a camera pointed at you make you feel awkward, do you not know where to put your hands, what to do and leaves you to wonder if you’ll ever be able to wipe the frozen smile off your face? You’re not alone. Most of us feel the same way, myself included. When I had my new pictures taken for my website overhaul, I was close to tears by my inability to pose … until my photographer stopped making me pose and started to direct/distract. Within minutes, I had forgotten about the camera and was acting naturally [and also stopped making what is known as "the dork fish face" in our house]. I actually had somewhat of a good time. Which is exactly my goal as your wedding photographer.

Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride and groom at Trapp Family Lodge wedding outside

As your wedding photographer, it is my job to capture photos of you that are fun, relaxed and show the real you enjoying your wedding day…
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride and groom portrait at Vermont outdoor wedding ceremony

Your only job is … to love on your new spouse
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride kissing groom at lake black and white wedding photo

… to use him to tee off
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride and groom on golf course taking wedding portraits

… or to simply carry her on your back … in short, it is your job to relax, enjoy, have fun and trust me to capture wedding photos that will look natural and un-posed.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, groom carrying bride on this back, bride holding wine glass

When planning your timeline, you want to set aside about about 15 minutes for the pictures of the two of you (more time if we’ll be in more than one location). Note that for this part of the day, it will be just the three of us with no distractions or other guests with cameras.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride and groom kissing on bridge at Vermont farm wedding

I am always super grateful when my couples allow me to grab them for 10 more minutes during the reception when the light is just right to take some more beautiful wedding photos.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, groom carrying bride over his shoulder at their Webster Barn Vermont wedding

Here is the link to a fantastic sunset calendar. It gives you the exact time of the sun setting for various locations based on time of the year.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride in cowboy hat with groom on tractor at Webster Barn Vermont wedding

We can also take more wedding pictures after dark – like this super romantic and intimate candle-light wedding photo, which hasn’t been retouched or digitally enhanced.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride and groom kissing in the dark over candle

Kat – Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat
Your Vermont wedding photographer

The new wedding albums are here!!!

I am so excited about these new wedding albums!!! They got in just in time for the beginning of this new wedding season (which is kicking off in just a little over a week) and you’re in for an absolute treat.

First up is the 8*8, 20-page, hardcover layflat wedding album that is included in the “Princess Bride” wedding photography package. I am absolutely in love with it. Remember the old-fashioned wedding albums that were heavy as a brick, had those thick pages with opaque backgrounds and cluttered designs that felt like they were still stuck in the 80s? Yeah, this isn’t one of those. This coffee table wedding album is classic, timeless, decidedly uncluttered and totally styling. All albums are custom designed to reflect you and your wedding.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, wedding album from summer outdoor Vermont barn wedding at the Webster Barn in Hyde Park Vermont

Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, wedding album from summer outdoor Vermont barn wedding at the Webster Barn in Hyde Park Vermont

Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, wedding album from summer outdoor Vermont barn wedding at the Webster Barn in Hyde Park Vermont

Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, wedding album from summer outdoor Vermont barn wedding at the Webster Barn in Hyde Park Vermont

Kat – Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat
Your Vermont wedding photographer – ask about custom wedding album design

On starting a family and a rare picture of me

Today is a very special day. It marks the 8-year anniversary of Damian and I picking up Daisy and officially becoming a family. She was the absolutely cutest baby bee. Ever.

Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, my baby bee Daisy Mae

We took this picture last summer – it’s one of the few pictures I am in as I’m usually on the other end of the camera – and I am still as much in love with her as I was when we first saw her.

Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, Vermont wedding photographer and her dog

Happy Gotcha Day Daisy Mae – love you!!!!

Kat – Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat
your dog loving Vermont wedding photographer

Photographing the wedding party

I absolutely love photographing the wedding party. When planning your wedding timeline, you want to set aside about 20-30 minutes for those pictures. The key to success here is … groomsmen! Yes, gentlemen, you. You see, groomsmen are shy & elusive creatures with the tendency to disappear once it’s their turn to pose for formals. For good reason – years of being in wedding parties have taught them that formals are a decidedly un-fun way to spend cocktail hour. So we’re going to make it quick & painless.

When doing formals after the wedding ceremony, I like to start with the entire wedding party. Here, our groomsmen are distracted by the beautiful bridesmaids and soon lose their shy.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bridesmaids and groomsmen on carousel

If you’ve been following my “formal wedding portraits” series, you have already read about Duke, the wedding dog, in last week’s post on dogs in Vermont weddings and how patiently Duke posed for all the wedding photos.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, photo of entire wedding party with dog and kid

Wedding tip: Before you assume your position, just drop everything you’re holding (glasses, bottles, cans, purses, cameras etc.) and place it right behind your wedding photographer so it won’t be in the pictures.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, groomsmen at Old Lantern Vermont wedding

Groomsmen & groomsmaid. Super cute – this was taken prior to the wedding ceremony at the Alerin Barn in St. Johnsbury, VT.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, groomsmen and groom at Alerin Barn wedding Vermont

And, of course, if you guys have a hobby or anything that just screams “YOU”, by all means, do it. Here are the groom & groomsman putting on their best wrestling moves.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, groomsmen wrestling at wedding photos in Vermont

And just like that … the guys are done taking photos and free to join cocktail hour. However, you want to check in with the bride & groom to make sure you’re on time and in place for the grand entrance.

With the groomsmen now being out of the picture, it’s time to photograph the bridesmaids. If you have props like these super cute parasols, bring them along.
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bride and bridesmaids posing with bright parasols for wedding photos

One of my all time favorites, bridesmaids in a field in Vermont:
Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat, bridesmaids and bride photo in field at outdoor wedding in Vermont

I hope you enjoyed these beautiful photos as much as I enjoyed taking them. Happy Friday & happy wedding planning!

Kat – Kingdom Wedding Photography by Kat
Your Vermont wedding photographer

In case you missed the previous posts on formal wedding photos, here they are:
“How to take a group photo of all the weddings guests” and “how to photograph extended family formals at a wedding”.